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> Sibling Rivalry
Sibling rivalries consist of jealousy, fighting and
competition between brothers and sisters. It is a
cause for concern for all parents who have two or
more kids. Sibling rivalries often stem right after
the birth of a second child and sibling rivalries
usually continue throughout childhood and can be
very frustrating and stressful for parents.
Fortunately, there are many things parents can do to
help their kids get along with each other better and
work through the tough times in positive ways. In
the end your kid’s relationships will eventually
develop and evolve into healthy ones. Working things
out with siblings will give your children chances to
develop important skills like cooperating and being
able to see another person’s perspective on things.
However, when problems arise stick to the basics.
Never compare your children (the most important
thing to remember), don’t typecast and let each
child be who they are, teach your children positive
ways to get attention from each other, plan family
activities that are fun for everyone, make sure each
child has enough time and space of their own, pay
close attention to the time of day and other
patterns in when conflicts usually occur and don’t
play favorites.
As far as child psychologists see, sibling rivalries
are normal and are healthy in most aspects as they
teach your children patience, understanding and
love. Parents should intervene when fights become
dangerous and physical. If your children are
physically violent with each other, and/or your
child is always the victim and doesn’t fight back,
you are dealing with sibling abuse and should seek
professional help.
Another great option for parents looking to speak
with their children about sibling rivalries is to
set up a family meeting. Family meetings are
meetings where all family members get together and
make decisions and choices by working together.
Choose a time that is agreeable by everyone and
truly listen to what your kids have to say.
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